PROBLEMS AND PERSECUTION
mustn't let people devastate us, for a crowd is crazy. Out of envy
and malice they group together like one mind against one,
agreeing--consensually validating--the victim's inferiority or
evil. Become whole: you will win out as higher always gains
victory over lower. The word "rejection" means to "despise, set
aside as having no value. To loathe, spit out, cast away, give no
place to." There is no greater pain until you see the true gain:
for the cursed genius that's the main--let me make that plain. It
helps to know they aren't rejecting us but rather God who sent us.
Once God places a call on your life there is no greater
satisfaction as you become rare and different. At first the herd
hates and slights God's mouthpiece but you must never be upset
over the serpent's bite again--shake it off to be King. If you are
bitten and don't shake it off the poison penetrates your system
and you become as bad as the evil that sent it. from
JUST SKIP DINNER
In this age of
feminism, you would think women could trust each other. Not so.
Female bullies are everywhere punishing other women through
exclusion. After being "she-bullied" once, women feel shaky even
about their closest female friends. Yet out of a fear of being
alone, sick relationships are maintained.
Bullies Fight with Exclusion not Fists
cruelty is certainly reflected in female culture: the dirty looks,
the taunting notes, total exclusion from "the group." Trained not
to be angry, women and girls aggress against each other through
exclusion-- gossip and manipulation. This is the female bully--and
her victim always feels to blame (shame). Read on and you'll see
history differently---guaranteed to relieve, like you won't
believe as loose ends come together and settle all
doubts--dissolving submerged pouts; from past bullying as far back
as girl scouts--being made the "outs".
excluding, ruining the reputation of, slandering, constantly
criticizing, nit-picking, humiliating, undermining, denying,
refusing to value, manipulating, gossiping, bringing up the past,
triggering self-doubt, treacherous betraying (e.g. gossiping to
neighbors) incurring jealousy, breaking confidences, telling
secrets...shall I go on? You'll feel so much better with him/her
FRIENDS & FAMILY
they fake? Often yes--so let them eat cake, while you people-fast--it's
your future you'll make. What you're fighting are COLLUSIONS so
just cut it loose and do your own thing (you've got too much at
CULT bullies. They play the social game superbly. But like the demons they'll jump in a lake for it's seeing
themselves they can't take. We're talking about systems and social
set-ups who seem "nice" on the surface but inside are a fake.
about females and their fickle though ferocious fights (every
generation of women can tell stories of being bullied by other
(1) Girls never
forget. Boys duke it out and finish the fight, but with
female anger grows violent underground until it erupts on the
victim who is suddenly cut out of a group without explanation.
This hurts since we're expected to "have a lot of friends" and "be
nice". The conflict creates an angry undertow leading to future
(2) There's no
specific target: Whether it be about a pretty or ugly, popular or
unpopular, or a new girl; the simplest comment provokes a
well-planned global "attack. The fight stems from circumstances,
not her lack; since the hot coals can always be triggered (from
events going way back).
Showing anger jeopardizes needed relationships, so life becomes a
continuous negotiation between the hot coals inside and a show of
caretaking behavior. The prospect of solitude terrifies so
manipulation of relation is the result, as the "little-shes" hang
on: the Queen Bee becomes a cult.
(4) Since "nice
girls have many friends" the fear of confrontation becomes
circular as aggression goes underground but nevertheless increases
the conflict--so relationships become weapons. Though the weak are
prey, bullying usually comes from submerged conflict from the
past. Ask any man--"does a female's anger last?"
(5) The major
problem is the trivialization of bullying by parents and teachers
and the tendency of the victim to feel guilt, shame or blame for
the rejection. In that state it's hard to realize it may be
jealousy or some past slight which was the gist of the jilt--and
that there is no reason for guilt.
(6) Since the
"prime directive" is keeping the "friendship" at any cost, girls
will avoid details of the other's cruelty and apologize "just to
end the fight". But her relief is only temporary, as the conflict
sears her insides and the other's cruelty increases in mean tides
(even more backbiting and lies).
(7) Females who
have suffered from exclusion and isolation may--if unresolved
through saintly solitude and trusting God, the defender of the
persecuted--become bullies later, having learned the art of
exclusion and relational rage (against the she-sage). Ladies,
wake-up! Escape this cage.
(8) The same
bullySue who degrades a woman will ingratiate (a suckup syncophant)
to men. Her behavior changes-in-context (to "superiors" vs.
"inferiors") which is how she's so sly, never being caught in a
lie. She cleverly fits all systems as she performs her bullish
game: to defame.
called "bookish bitches" by their victims, these she-bullies know
everything about everything; and if you disagree, they'll never
speak to you again. They'll make you walk the plank for breaking
their rules--and you can never get close as to them people are
just tools. It hurts being "outed" as bully gossips about her
Good Men Want
Ladies Not Bullies:
Fifty years ago
females had friendly community but " liberation" into moral
breakdown brought bullying which is quickly becoming physical.
Manly women feel " liberated" so they become a donkey's ass--and
it's much more than sass! Can this explain why only 1% of male
gays are over fifty? Women are worse than in the past--they're
getting gross, and crass.
It is shocking
how damaging social exclusion from networks can be. It's the basis
of suicide--and it's all through the family tree. Females are
subtle as they irritate like fleas. So from these cobwebs, you
must flee. Revel in solitude--with your True Self and God, then be
truly free! Females hurt each other with glee (they learned it at
their mother's knee).
flunk--escaping into a drunken spree--as it's often two against
one, seen in the sisters three. This happens to many, then it's
with sweet solitude in the arms of God--to that I would agree! To
genius: fighting to fit female culture is your debris so do your
own thing-- be the She-Marquis. You won't disagree--release phony
females, enjoy your new jubilee then you'll attract a nice he.
Bullying seems to
come out of nowhere--there's often no explanation and it's always
a shock. The bully keeps you on your toes by keeping you confused.
That's why he/she's hard to overcome--you can never predict where
she'll resume her destructive campaign. And when things go well,
you're so relieved you can't recall her game.
The bully is
narcissistic and adapt at twisting your words as she avoids blame
and makes you the bad guy. After disordering everyone's thinking
with illogical arguments which their cronies fall for
completely--and that's the end of them treating you sweetly.
I could go on
about narcissistic bullies--but it disturbs me too much. Suffice
it to say you must cut it all loose, and just revel in your
solitude. Women can be rude--in a mood, they start a social feud.
Ladies! The fast fixes all things if you trust no one, only God.
Women will call you odd--they're the conformist squad. It's a
punishing rod, running over you roughshod. It's a matter of having
to accept their facade. Well now just transcend the phony
feminists and the frail female " friend" or "family" fakes. The
fast and Inner Journey to your lovely self is ALL it takes. To
find your True Self, be ye separate from female culture--the
greatest obstruction to genius--for God, and goodness sakes.
re: Prideful Puffed-Up Powers and Petty Pugnacious Peer
Bully Says it All
The movie BULLY
is shockingly real, about the kids. Unrestrained sex and
scapegoatism are everywhere. The Bully becomes the target for
murder due to the accumulated resentments of the others. They
meet, they cheat, they plan, they justify--to escape boredom. It's
much worse than the everyday agitator--it's reptilian whoredom.
The cruel violent
teen epidemic is shockingly rampant. Teens confront all authority
esp parents, who are so scared they lock their bedroom doors at
night. This American catastrophe stems from two things: (1) taking
God out of the school, so now anything goes (like killing one's
foes) and (2) kids rule--parents are punished for discipline, and
the kids know the tool--make parents the fool.
School Phobia is
rampant due to bullies. I had it from the first day of school--I
did not want to be with my peers! Many parents use a "tough love"
approach to peer-fear, making the teen defend themselves (bringing
tear turning to beer). What a frightening betrayal--truth and
dignity on the shelves. No more a kids being happy elves as into
hobbies one delves.
Peace at any Price
persecution and for protection the teen feels he must make
friends--so relationships become possessive and controlling. He
fears going solo in against the devil's crowd, but the companion
of fools shall be destroyed-- as one's "protectors" create a
bigger void, hardly enjoyed. If it's solitude you avoid, don't be
annoyed when your soul is destroyed.
Saints and Genius
Who is the target
of bullies? The gifted, the different, the misft, the inward and
nonconforming. Perhaps this abuse comes from jealousy--of their
gifts, bringing rifts. Women are most competitive and cruel as
"friendship" degrades (hardly lifts). Even when things go well
they're walking on eggs, fearing the shifts.
dense hurt animals (the weak). It's a mean streak and how they
join the clique. We must see the signs and educate the heart--the
truly smart you should impart. Animal Lovers unite--it's the youth
who abuse in spite, so sense your pets plight! Rather than being a
knight (in defense of the weak), they scapegoat (in great
serial bullies in the family.
family bullying, power, control, domination, subjugation,
manipulation, intimidation, narcissism, attention seeking,
arrogance, isolation and exclusion (favorite tactic), interlocking
jealousy patterns, fear, shame, embarrassment, guilt, denial, and
(another favorite tactic) feigning victimization or persecution.
tactics of bullies are disempowerment (making the victim impotent,
including institutionalization or being declared incompetent for
life); control of finances or perceptions, ritual humiliation and
secret alliances against the one, and stimulating excessive levels
of fear and embarrassment ("telling all"). In this system, no walk
tall--separate, see their gall--you rise, then they fall.
3. All members
are sick but the "identified" one is the victim (see: tantrum).
The violence of family bullies is almost entirely psychological,
leaving no scars or evidence: It is subtle in the form of a
refusal to recognize, value, acknowledge and praise.
4. When the
victim's injury to health becomes apparent, the bully tells
everyone "she has a mental health problem"--but it's not mad
insane, just mad angry! Since only a saint could remain calm in
the face of such blatant intentional soul-slaughter, the
inevitable anger becomes "proof" of insanity or "mood disorder".
frustration from being misjudged leads to aggression, turned
inward to sickness, addiction or depression--thus confirming the
bad identity (confession). In many cases the victim--rather than
self-defending--simply succumbs to illness to ward off a fight.
The bully is powerful that way, in creating destruction (the
victim gets tight).
5. Female bullies
are masters of manipulation of emotion (guilt and shame)--seeing
any form of vulnerability--esp emotional neediness--as their
chance to exploit. The elderly, the ill or the emotional are
favorite targets to distract from themselves and their cruel
doings-- as subconsciously bovine as a cow's moo-ings..
6. The family
bullySue is adept at minimizing or destroying the target's public
image by creating doubts and suspicions and sharing false
"concerns". This poisoning of minds is difficult to counter; yet
explaining the game helps others to see through the mask, so
memorize these tactics as your humanitarian task!
7. The she-bully
forges exclusive alliances with her as the sole source of
information-- portraying the target as irresponsible, unstable and
untrustworthy by constantly highlighting past breaches of trust,
etc. BullySue gossip is pure projection--the "pot calling the
kettle black" election.
8. Bully Sue
wants the family's dependency on her for info and her sophomoric
"analyses"-- and anyone attempting to break this tie becomes the
new target. When close to being exposed, bullySue feigns
victimhood as she gets attention as the injured party, and when
the target explains the game she is called "paranoid". (This is so
complex you'd have to be a Freud to see why you've been so
9. Female bullies
are more devious, manipulative, cunning, sly, clever,
psychological and subtle than men; leaving less evidence as they
"bully with a smile". Female bullies will often get males to do
their dirty work (violence). It's their mood changes which make
them easy to spot (sudden silence), along with manipulating
others' perceptions--always in a "plausibly and charming" way as
they create misconceptions.
10. Though all
cruelty comes from weakness just one person's divisive, disordered
and dysfunctional personality can permeate the entire
(extended) family system like a cancer, affecting all generations
and those to come! That is the outcome of one convincing and
practised liar--bullySue. Power and attention are her gain (for
being insane) and when she has the reign, souls are slain.
From bullies you
must STAY FREE without refrain for then it's your destiny you will
to Female Genius.
Because Being Sided Against