trashy neighbors and spouses:
Don' get me started. They make me so mad. Everywhere
we move we always end up with one trashy junky neighbor and they
don't care what I think. Watch out--if they don't like
animals they'll retaliate on yours if you speak out too much.
But we do have a right to beauty, or what the law calls "FREEDOM
FROM BLIGHT". Blight is the junkyard, trash, old appliances
and cars, trailers and huge ugly trucks. if you live way
out, you are unfortunately unprotected from BLIGHT.
Ralph H. damn mad too
OMG! I am going through this very thing right now,
Karen. My roommate is a total slob with all her crap and I
do feel so imposed upon but if I say anything she calls me a
"controlling bitch". Oh Karen I wish I were dead--you are so
right this is a depressing, demonic atmosphere. The devil is
junk! Junk is the devil! You know, before I read this
I was actually thinking of going to a psychiatrist for my
"depression". I'm taking steps to get out of this hell on
earth, right now. I see how important it is. thanks
karen. Susan U.
wish to thank you for this treatise which deserves to be said over
and over again. The brain DOES have a need for order.
A clean and simple house is a happy house and a filthy cluttered
one is from hell. Chen I.
I have this
on both sides of my house. People who don't care about a
thing. They don't give a damn whether I like it or not.
I remember my mom said in the fifties people CARED about what the
neighbors thought and no one let their homes degrade like this.
If someone was this way, they were ostracized. My God, what
has happened to this society. Why is it only the high-class
neighborhoods are protected from human degradation? Just
because you live in a lower middle class neighborhood doesn't mean
you have to live this way. I think we should be vigilantes
like you said. Caroline R
Karen I woke
up very early on a Monday morning and just knew I was
supposed to go to your website. I have been very
depressed--a desolate feeling has taken over me and I have
felt overwhelmed by it. And now, I see everything so clearly
and all my doubts are settled. Although this is very
relieving it is also a bit depressing seeing the gravity and
OMNIPRESENCE of this situation. People have become junkies.
Fastidious home-ladies are put down by feminists for their
ultra-concern for neat tidiness. Women are always leaving
home to "go out there" to the world. HOME is no longer
a place of charm.
this page because I can see myself. I was very angry at
first but now I realize this is why everyone hates me for my junk.
They said it but you said it better. Rick Torres
JUNK-ENABLERS--IT'S EQUALLY BAD.
Karen--maintaining order requires ENERGY but the jarkards are
drained--dissipated. All they want is sensual living--they
are sensual devils. Then they have no energy left over
to keep house. I understand your pain in your writing and
you obviously had problems adapting to this situation.
bought our new home Bob's crap was covered in snow so it wasn't
until it melted that we realized we lived next to "Bob's junk
yard". He is also negligent/cruel to animals which I find
goes together. We have asked Bob numerous times to clean up
and he gets angry. He also has wild parties on weekends in
which we must endure loud acid rock until 5 am. Because we
chose to live out in the country where there are no restrictions,
we just have to put up with it. We feel sick because we love
our home but can't sit out on our deck because we see his junk.
We are stuck with Bob, it's lowered our prop value so much no one
would want it. Karen we are young, in our twenties. So
it isn't just the younger generation who are this way. Bob
is in his fifties--an "aging baby" like you say.
Susan and Ned. K
remember I had a fastidious aunt and all the family
feminists hated her, purposely messing things up and
laughing about it. C. I.
on junky trashy neighbors and spouses is: I HATE them.
I never admitted that until now--but you've given me reason to
hate them which I already do, and always have. Trouble is,
when I was young I was just like this, with no relation to my
environment. To keep things neat you first have to see
things, which the fogged neurotic mind can't see. Relation
to environment in this sick culture actually doesn't happen until
later years. I wish you'd put back your page on
chastity, because it really shows the relation between sin and
poor housekeeping. PIGS! When someone is deep in
addiction he doesn't have the energy to do right--good point!
And this is how Satan is bringing down this culture and the rest
of the world especially India: through JUNK and the "junk
mentality"! Ashutosh A.
It used to
be that women created the reality of the home, the charm and
events that were etched in memory for a lifetime. She was careful
about every detail and handed down these "best way of doing
things". Now this brings only resentment. Home-making
is REALITY-CREATION of the home, the "spirit" of the home.
Now I feel sorry for the poor kids and animals having to adapt to
these homes. Rober G.
FROM SENSUAL SIN AND HUMAN DEGENERACY LEADING TO RUIN:
LIVING NEXT TO A TORCH, THERE'S JUNK ON THE PORCH
sickening, heartrending when you think of their children. It
makes me sick that some children are so unfortunate to be brought
up in these messy homes. These are the baby-boomers and
their offspring, who seem to despise order, routine, work.
They are lazy and they are angry and cruel--yes they do go
together! If you try to correct them they "despise
correction" and that means they will bring themselves down.
But in the meantime it's hell adapting to them. They can
ruin an entire neighborhood. It is an evil cancer.
This is what
feminism has created, and the public schools who espouse "freedom"
like as if routines and work is "bondage". I feel sick too
because I realize it's gotten so out of control, with three
screwed up generations, that there is no going back. The
only way we could get our culture back is to send them all to boot
camp or reform school. But in a free nation that is not
possible so we just have to let them get into trouble and put them
in prison. It is so obvious what is happening. John R.
LOL you have
just described my grandkids. I do not look forward to "their
day" here. It is chaos. If we discipline them, it is
so different from the lax attitude of their mother that they rebel
or throw tantrums. I hate their habits and foul speech.
They have no respect for their elders. They act like animals
in the way they DON'T take care of their rooms or bathrooms--but
that is insulting the animals. I wish to thank you for
writing this page--it is especially germane to the older ladies,
and I thank you for it. So many times I am soooooo angry but
don't know how to express it, or even WHY I'm angry. But
then I read you KK and see why! You are the expression of an
entire generation who are FED UP. Leolyn Jack
writing a dear John letter to my girlfriend who's a pig.
it's been awhile since I was here and I'm so glad I checked out
what you were saying now. I'm so sick of all the liberal
mindless new age crap on U tube. When I read your
views I know how to discern things so much better. This is a
confusing generation when everyone says right is wrong, and wrong
is right or that good is evil, and evil good.
The youth are so wrong in their attitudes from the public schools. It is a very
serious matter and yes I think we should take the law into our own
hands and form groups. What first must happen is
realizing the importance of beauty, and the degeneration
which comes from human ugliness and messings. Lucille Calle-Tellez
has ordinances pertaining to this. I suggest we read up on
everything we can do. Few people, for example, realize that
junk cars on properties are illegal, or inoperative appliances.
Check your area, do your homework, write POLITE letters and save
copies, do everything you need to do in a CALM, POISED manner.
No anger--that will only come back. Just do all you can,
then enjoy your own day looking the other way. Semantha H.
realize what you're dealing with here: HUMAN MESSES.
Getting angry just means you still expect them to be right--they
can't because they are in the blight. I like how this
article ties it all together with sin. Junkaholism follows
sin. Marilyn I.
I think it's
one of the greatest benefits of wealth--others maintain your order
so you can mask your decline into sin that way but the poor
are seen in this condition by all. Even so, there's the evil
principal inside in which everyone knows--they can't put their
finger on it, but they KNOW.
I love it
that this gives us ammunition against what many of us have always
hated but didn't think we had a right to! We were adapting
to our own kids, thinking it was "none of our business".
This is bull! SK
It seems to
me they are also very arrogant when they are messy. They
seem to think the world revolves around just them--it's really a
youth thing, a stunted growth thing. It truly is
junkaholism. It is the reprobate mind which is only focused
on the sensual not the considerate. It is sickening. Nowadays I see
thanks. My kids are always calling me "hateful" because I
criticize their messy rooms. I believed this but I see
everything in a new way today because of this. It makes me
mad but it's also a relief as now I know I"m not crazy, nor
"hateful" Grace J.
is great, you know you get to a point in maturity where it's not a
question IF you're the queen, but that you MUST be the queen or
the others go into ruin. That is you to us, and what every
woman should be in her home. She should be a rock, a glue, a
model, a pointer of the correct path, a finder of the "old ways"
which are best. You are a godsend to this wretched
generation. Alex R.
is there is no "line". Where does not-quite-clean become
disgusting clutter? Where's the line? That's the
problem--it's one of definition. Is "junk" everything not
attached to the house which is inoperative, or what?
It has to be that. Steve L.
last post was so stupid. "Steve L" is a fool! The fact
that we can't find the "line" between clean and clutter means we
must go all the way clean. Don't even leave the rake out
overnight, put it back in the shed. Go all the way with it,
then you know where the line is! Be like you were in the
military, or like the Chinese who in their prisons are very very
very tidy and neat--the "white glove" treatment. I'm sure no
modern woman could ever be made to get down to those details so
she remains "not-quite-clean" and that's as good as she gets.
If a woman is impecunious and fastidious she's called
"neurotic" Frank J.
You do have
the most intelligent audience. I like all these comments and
have learned immeasurably from them. Thanks Cecile.
neighbors once who had a bunch of junk cars in their lot.
I remember how the neighbors started hating him, and
then he got on drugs to deal with the hate, then next thing I know
he was in the paper after stabbing his girlfriend.
This man had a very stormy life and one time I saw the
inside of his trailer--it was like a bomb hit it! I
couldn't believe anyone could ever live like that. This is
human degeneracy in it's worst form. -- Susan K.
"modern" homes are disgusting cow pies. Joe L.
I get so
angry about this very thing that it's endangering my health.
Sometimes it's healthier just to shut up and adapt. They are
stinking wretched human messes, you are right. But what can
we do about it--the sensitive suffer far more than the dense about
this. I do so feel sorry for women all over the
world--especially elderly women who probably hate their own aging
baby kids! Mary L.
CALLED "WHITE TRASH" and it's all around us too. JL
Yes we have
a right to be angry. And I get VERY angry about it.
But sometimes I wonder if we don't get like fish wives, screaming
and yelling. I know we can't help it because we are so mad
about the filth, stench, disorder, crappiness of life with these
demons. But what is the proper comportment in reaction to
it? It seems like NOTHING works--not being an example, not
yelling, not crying, not doing nothing, not being sweet, not being
a martyr--they are so lazy nothing gets them moving so what is the
answer? Divorce or moving? Someone please help
me! Lauri S.
I NOW SEE
HOW IMPORTANT THIS IS TO OUR MENTAL HEALTH. But they are so
lazy they'll never move the crap until forced to. This is
serious. I feel like killing somebody! Suzi J.
reading in one of the KK books about the "beautiful feedback
loop": where seeing beauty excites the tissues, which brings
inspiration, which produces more beauty. And how ugliness
brings the opposite down-response. L. U. S. Los
My daughter sent me this page and I'm glad she did. For
fifty years I have been married to a junkaholic. He's always
bringing home crap, I'm surrounded by crap all the time. It
has made me an irritable witch all through our married lives.
I weep on anyone's shoulder I'm so desperate for understanding.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Now I see why I've
been MADE crazy. I have taken so much valium, and even
started drinking gin to calm my nerves and give myself some
solace. I feel sick but excited that FINALLY someone takes
my side. L. Genevieve LeFebre
this CEREBROTONIA you're always talking about? I mean, the
cerebrotonic is PHOBIC about disorder. Wouldn't a cereb go
crazy around a slob? I feel many of the ladies above may be
super-sensitive about order, and thus their plight is DOUBLY,
TRIPLY bad. Murray I.
IT'S SMART OR SOPHISTICATED TO TOLERATE DEPRAVITY--IT IS NOT.
Carol l. J
Mary is very attractive and popular in school. She does her
make-up, follows all the fashions and spends most her time on the
phone. But she is a SLOB. If you could see her room!
Why can't people learn to pick up after themselves?
(No wonder the world hates Americans--filled with abundance and
a-bunch-a-mess). All she cares about is her looks and the
boys but not how she annoys....Somehow we've got to get these kids
in shape, but how? The state would call it abuse.
Guess that's one good thing about communist countries--mama don't
take no mess. Rob J. I.
out where you just mildly annoyed which builds to intermittent
anger then all the time. Then you become lethargic and
dull from enervation and fascination with life flags.
Time lags. Then, you start mal-adapting to the trash by
getting smashed..." JM